Here we go again... Valentine's Day.  Another chance to BLOW IT.

This year, let's get it right by surprising and delighting her with one of these woman-curated, woman-approved gifts sure to make her feel loved.

Don't think too much. Just make your choice, make the purchase, and get on with your life.

This morse code style necklace spells out the letters L - O - V - E (in morse code, duh!). It will be a great conversation piece with her friends and she'll feel loved by you every time she puts it on.   Get it on Amazon

Let's not make the mistake of another regular old drugstore box of chocolates this year when there are WAY better options available. Shop this amazing collection of Valentine's Day treats at Sugarfina for a candy gift that will blow her away.   Shop Sugarfina

Shop the Valentine's Day collection at ProFlowers.com. If you're not sure what to pick you simply cannot go wrong with the always classy and classic selection of a dozen roses as pictured above.   Shop Pro Flowers

Shop the Valentine's Day collection at Shari's Berries. From chocolate dipped strawberries to cheesecake bites to brownie pops you'll easily be able to find the perfect fit for her Valentine's Day sweet tooth.   Shop Shari's Berries

They say the shortest path to insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results. We laugh at this flow chart because it accurately captures the no-win feeling most guys have in marriage... even when we're right, we're wrong - right? 

Yet we continue to believe by just doing what we've been doing she'll finally come around to our way of thinking and this whole marriage thing will suddenly come into focus and get easy for us.

If you're finally done with the short road to insanity, we're ready to help.

Here at Say Do Give we take a new and different approach to marriage. We commit to treating our wives like our best clients by doing simple things for her on a regular basis to show her she matters and we haven't forgotten her.

The twist is that we source the ideas from WOMEN, who actually provide simple things we can Say, Do and Give, taking the guess work completely out.

Click here to learn more and sign up to get these Say Do Give ideas in your inbox on a regular basis. All you need to do it pick one from time to time and make it happen. It only takes a few minutes, and it may help you finally crack the code on this marriage thing!

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When we, as dudes, asked married ladies with kids, “What are the four words every married woman with kids wants whispered in her ear?” we were surprised at what we heard back.

Seriously. We thought it would be a bunch of romantic notions straight from Hollywood. You know, “I love you always,” “You are truly beautiful,” or “You’re the only one.” 

There’s nothing wrong with any of the responses we expected. It’s just that, well, those weren't the answers we got back. 

Literally, NONE of them… and we polled 160 married women with kids! 

Not surprisingly, it turns out we’ve still got a WHOLE LOT to learn about what women want from us, how we can meet their needs, and what makes them feel truly loved. 

Below is a summary of the top responses received from the survey. We broke the responses down by topics we created after the fact to make it easier to read and to allow our man-brains to get the bigger picture… something we pretty much always miss. This also helped us see that just about all of the responses fell into a few basic categories:

If you’ve ever thought, “If I just knew what she wanted me to do, I’d do it!” … keep reading, 'cause we're about to drop some knowledge.

Here goes.

To put this in Family Feud lingo: We surveyed 160 married women with kids and asked them, “What four words does every married woman with kids want whispered in her ear?” The top 6 answers are on the board (ok, so it’s the top responses within the top 6 categories… work with us fellas):